I am sorry to hear that aquaintances of yours think impending suicide is a matter that can be left alone. At least now they know that if they want to commit suicide without intervention, you won't be notified? (I hope?)

I realize this is a touchy topic. It's just-- this exact situation happened to my friend and I recently, and... well, it was really bad. Nobody died, bless their souls, and the yelling wasn't nearly so loud, but it was still really bad.

I hope you and your husband will feel better soon.